Anonymous asked: where have you been????

All my life? Kidding. Sorry been busy, and I almost had no time to check the internet.

But now I’m back, for the meantime maybe. Not sure if I’m back for good, but at least for now.

Anonymous asked: Some of your quotes don't make sense and you you're using the wrong grammar. Just saying . -.-

Thanks for letting me know. I’ll try to improve that.

And btw, please know the difference between secrets and quotes. You might mean the secrets when you say it doesn’t make sense. People submit those to let out their feelings and situation, then I copy+paste them right away.

Anonymous asked: Hey, so i really like this girl for 3 months now. I am 16 and I took her out to lunch but just as friends, and she is the one who introduced me to tumblr. I always texted her first and she was interesting. My friends knew I liked this girl but so did this guy who I had some bad experiences in the past, such as fights and etc.. so he got really close to her as well but doesn't like her. I dont know what to do. I barely talk to her now and ignore her, and i never say hi anymore. what do i do?

I say it’s just a little competition, and I think it’s practically normal. Why are you all suddenly backing down? Show her that you’re not letting anything get in the way. You’re showing that you’re scared and afraid to take the risks. Although it’s kind of an option to move away just so that there’ll be no fights. Just show her that you’re always there for her, no matter what. One day, either she’s gonna realize who is good enough for her.

Don’t miss a chance, ask out the girl of your dreams. Sometimes, it’s now or never. Good luck.

applephines asked: Love the quotes! Take care.

Thank you. Means a lot, really. Take care.

Anonymous asked: can you tell me the name of this font? /post/24943728282/more-quotes

Please ask me without being Anon so I could message you privately.

Anonymous asked: Hi. Please help me. These past few weeks, my boyfriend and I are always arguing. The things that we argue about comes from different kinds of situations but will always end up the same. Meaning, we argue about the same things over and over again. Now, i don't know if I still love him. I don't know if I'm tired. I don't know what I'm feeling about him. If we argue, I'll just stay calm and wait for him to calm down. He'll blab about things and i'll just answer him "okay." I'm tired. So tired. HELP

First question is “Are you still happy?”

I’m not saying you should break up with him right away if you’re not. Because to work things out, you need to fix what’s broken. But what if it just can no longer be fixed?

Here’s what you should do first. Let him know how you feel about this. Ask him out what’s wrong, why is he acting this way? Could there be something he’s expecting from you that you haven’t given to him, or is there something missing? Let him know that you want this to work, but not this way. If he can’t answer you back, maybe he is the problem. Maybe there’s just something he’s confused about.

If he says he has a problem, give him space a little while and time to clear his head. Same to you, give yourself a break. Fights are normal in a relationship, but not in a way that it’s already tearing you apart or make you feel tired about it. It should always bring you right back to each other.

Anonymous asked: I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy that I live. But its so hard with him living on a different continent. Sometimes I feel like I should just break up with him, but he always says he wouldn't be able to date another girl. He already thinks we'll get to go to college together and that we will get married. We both have been suicidal, and we got each other out of that, but I'm just not sure if breaking up would be a good or bad idea.

Long distance relationships are always hard. But if you’re really willing to work it out with that person, you’ll do just anything to communicate unless if one of you stops doing such thing.

Here’s what I want you to do: List down in a piece of paper numbers of reasons/answers to these questions.

• What’s keeping you from breaking up?
• What’s the reason you want to break up?

Whatever the reasons for these choices are, always weigh which has more or has the least. Sometimes, you even get to know what you really want because you seem to be favoring that question by finding more answers just so it could weigh more, just so you could make that decision. After you’ve done that, you’ll know what you really want, and why you want it.

I don’t know if this is really a good suggestion or advice, but sometimes I find this way very useful for myself as well. I hope you find the right answer for yourself. :D

Anonymous asked: So here it goes. S and K are best friends. They basically do everything together. S had a crush on J. J and K have been really close, just as friends. J also knew about this crush. As they grew up, S wanted something to happen with J. But S took his time, S would flirt and play hard to get but that's as far as it would get. K on the other hand, is falling for J due to their friendship. Then K asks J out secretly behind S' back. K knew that J meant so much to S. How should you feel if you're J?

First of all, J must be one special person. And honestly, this is one difficult question. Been staring at it for quite a few minutes. Lol.

One question, did J agree to go out with K?

If I were J, of course I’d feel good knowing S and K like me. Honestly, wouldn’t it boost a person’s confidence? It would.

If we’d compare S and K, K is certain of how he feels by finally asking J out. S is just fooling around, playing hard to get, so if I were J I would think that S is not sincere. That everything for S is for fun. Playing hard to get makes it worth the wait, but we can’t wait forever. Of course nobody wants to keep guessing what’s really going on.

But of course, choosing one of them is gonna end up with friendships and hearts breaking. We don’t wanna end up the reason behind a great friendship that’s ended. How about if J passes up and waits for another person to come to his/her life? That’s another option.

If I were J, I’d ask K to be honest with S, besides they’re bestfriends and bestfriends tell each other everything. It just won’t work if you keep it as a secret forever, one day S is gonna have to find out about it. So K should rather tell S before S starts losing his trust with K who is going out with J.

I don’t know but yeah, these are my thoughts about this. :D

Anonymous asked: i've been liking this guy for almost a year now and we've been communicating with each other almost everyday. im in love with him with doubt but im not sure if he feels the same way.We're sort of friends right now. sometimes i feel like he likes me but sometimes i think he likes someone else. im scared that he's just trying to be nice with me. what should i do? should i let my guard down? should i tell him my feelings? i dont want things to be awkward if it turns out that he didnt like me.

If you really like him, I think you should hold onto it. My best advice would be to start paying more attention to his actions. That’s when you would truly know about your feelings, specially knowing you’re still in doubt. You’re not sure of it yet, so I’d advice you to look beyond your ‘everyday communication’, which everyone else could do, and start looking at his efforts.

Talk is cheap. When you get to see the actions, that’s when you’ll know.

Anonymous asked: for some reason i cant accept the fact that i lost my virginity at the age of 16. yesterday when i thought about it i broke down crying..i had promised i wouldn't do it till i got married and i broke that promise. IDK what i can do or tell myself to make me feel better and strong again.. I feel like im worthless now

You broke down crying because you broke a promise to yourself. It’s the same with other people, once a promise is broken, they get hurt and stop trusting that certain person. That’s what is happening to you. You broke a promise, you got hurt, and you feel like you lost your trust to yourself that’s why you’re not feeling better and strong.

What do you usually do when someone breaks a promise to you? They apologize and you forgive them. All you need to do is apologize and forgive your own self. You’re not worthless, ok? Just because you lost your virginity does not mean you have lost your worth, your purpose in life. Losing your virginity doesn’t matter, to some it does, and usually those are the immature ones who judge people by what they see in them not by HOW they see them. So cheer up! Again as I have said this, not just once or twice, there’s more to life than just worrying about something that’s done. It’s in the past, there’s nothing we can do to change it but learn from it, so move on. :)