skylersenseless asked: Which website do you use to make those photos for your "secret" submissions?

I just use Adobe Photoshop.

Anonymous asked: This year at school I developed a strong crush on this guy I have known all my life but never REALLY talked to. I was a freshman and he was a senior. I had managed to try not to think or act on it for a long time until most of my friend had dates to a dance and I did not. I was talking to my mom and told her what was going on. Then without my knowledge she talked to his mom and in a very sneaky way got us to go as freinds. After that "datish" thing I can't stop thinking about him! Help!

What exactly are you asking help for? I don’t see anything wrong here. I say just go with it. Just go where it’s taking you, this might be a good thing. If it isn’t, then take it as a great experience.

Anonymous asked: no reblog button?

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Looked it up just in case this is what’s happening. Hope this helps.

Anonymous asked: i told my boyfriend about him and he told me to do what i want and that he loves me regardless and that he knows he wants to be with me no matter what. he's been busy all day today but i've been texting the boy from kentucky. i feel so special when i talk to him. i just dont know what to do.

I think you should be certain first of who you like most. I know it’s a good thing these 2 guys know you, and they both like you but I think you must also consider their feelings. And if you don’t think about it, it might end up with both of them getting hurt, or you getting hurt.

I think you should go with this guy in Kentucky. It seems you kinda have a greater connection with him. I’m not saying he’s the better one, but it seems like you’re more comfortable with him. And in a relationship, that’s what everyone wants. And another reason why I think you should go for him? It’s because if you really loved your boyfriend, you wouldn’t bother getting involved with this other guy.

I know this can be rude, but I gotta be upfront with you. If you’re not happy with your boyfriend because he’s busy all day and it may seem like he’s got no time for you, and even if you know he loves you, let him know about this.

Think about what you really want, who you think you need the most. Because your situation might lead to a more complicated one, and nobody wants that. So make it simple.

Decide and do what you have to do.

Anonymous asked: I'm starting to fall for this guy who's my friends with benefits. The problem is I underestimated him. The more we hung out, the more I got to know him. He's the only one I know that I can have discussions about life and society and such topics that no other can compare which is precisely what makes it even more difficult not to fall for him. However, the relationship we are on is strictly 'professional'. I'm growing feelings, I don't know what to do to get myself out of this situation. Help.

Since you want to keep it strictly professional, let’s keep it simple. Move away. You want to get out of the situation? Do it, act on it. Don’t just say it, don’t just think about it. Stop seeing him, stop communicating with him. I know it would be hard but that’s the only way to get out of it. The more you get more involved with him, it will just get even more harder.

When a person is so determined to do something, they will. If there’s a side of them that will try to stop them, those are just tests to see if they’re really eager to do whatever they need to do.

Whether we like it or not, the thing with ‘friends with benefits’ status is always gonna end up with one getting hurt because they are starting to fall. Save yourself before it gets any worse.

Anonymous asked: I'm on my 3rd year in college, and so is my boyfriend. I know that after we graduate (we're both getting 4-year courses), we would go our separate ways and all, since he's planning to go abroad. I know I can't handle LDR. But I soooo love him. So I'm thinking of breaking up with him now so it won't hurt that much when the time comes. You see, we already know the ending of this; so why bother prolonging our relationship? Is what Im going to do stupid or it's the right thing to do?

You must be from Philippines, too. Just a guess.

It’s not stupid. You’re just thinking about the future, the more realistic type. It’s a mature decision. It doesn’t mean that it’s the end for both of you, you can still be friends. Though it’s true it will hurt, but it may hurt more when it’s already harder to let go.

I can’t say it’s the right thing to do, because everything is up to you. Only you know which is, well not exactly what is right, but what is best for you and for the both of you. Although before deciding this, ask him what he thinks about it too. How he would react to it. Then both of you can decide what you both want.

Anonymous asked: I'm in love with my friend's boyfriend ... and I think he likes me too. He thinks I'm really cute and even if I just smile at him, it makes him smile too. So let's just assume he likes me back .... What do I do? He makes me so happy and I obviously make him happy as well. It's just not a fair situation.

I’ve had people asking me this kind of a situation. So I think I’m just gonna tell you the same thing I did. Which is more important and which is more worth losing, your friend or this guy?

Another thing is that, if he likes you, if he’s happy with you, why is he still in that relationship? What if he’s just really friendly to you. Think about it first, keep a little distance and take a look at it.

If you push yourself to it, you might make things more complicated and we don’t want that. Just sit back, and wait until you’re certain that he likes you. Some things may not be yours right now, maybe soon, maybe not. But for now, I’m sorry but I’m gonna have to suggest that you respect their relationship.

I know it isn’t fair, especially for you, but it isn’t fair to your friend too. Try putting yourself in her place and think how you’d feel about it.

blessedmartius asked: HEY THERE I KNOW MY QUESTION MAY SEEM STUPID BUT I LIKE TO KNOW HOW DID YOU PUT AN ASK ADVICE BUTTON ON YOUR BLOG IM TRYING BUT I COULDN'T PLEASE REPLY MY MESSAGE AND THANK YOU SO MUCH LOVED YOUR BLOG JUST FOLLOWED :) SORRY IF I BOTHERED YOU XOXO

I just made a new page at customize. Added the ask box, which you can google and find the code somewhere.

Don’t worry, it’s no big. Hope you find it.

Anonymous asked: I am in love and he is in love with me.. I love him way toooo much... but he is 30 years older, what can I do? I really love him and like him...

What’s the main problem in your situation? I don’t see anything wrong here. Whatever happened to “Age doesn’t matter.” or “Age is just a number.”

Here’s the thing, before doing something that’s always risky like getting into a serious relationship, always ask yourself first… “Do I know what I’m trying to get myself into?” If your answer is yes, then I say go for whatever makes you happy. If your problem is the society, it’s not theirs to worry about.

If I think it’s normal, then probably there are hundreds or thousands of other people who think the same way. Honestly, I’ve seen some of these kinds in malls usually, and I don’t care actually. Do what you want. Life is short. Although there are things you will regret in the end, but you’ll be thankful you learned something from it.

Also, it’s always best to ask your friends and family about this. This isn’t anything you think or feel everyday. Talk about it, you might hear reasons and other options why you should and should not do it. But at the end of the day, it’s always your call.

Anonymous asked: It's been a year now since we broke up. I'm still in love with this guy but he moved on. He is with another girl. Whenever i see him with her it just breaks me. I try everything from which i can forget him but i don't know, i always find myself reading his texts, emails our chats. I keep on looking at our pictures. I keep on crying at night knowing the fact he won't ever be mine again. I always wonder why such a strong relationship ended up.

There’s no denying, most good things no matter how strong and invincible it once was, eventually will come to an end.

There are 5 stages of grief, I’m sure most of us know this: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance.

Right now, you’re still in denial. The line “I always wonder why such a strong relationship ended up.” is proof how you still haven’t accepted the fact that it’s done between the both of you. Now I know you don’t want to delete his texts, emails and chats, but don’t you think it’s time to stop hanging on to something that’s no longer there anymore? Also, the reason you’re still holding on is because you still wish he’d come back to you. Don’t. Be mad how could someone ever break up with someone as good as you, do things you haven’t, go out with friends, cry, laugh, get yourself busy. Although at night you might remember him, at least you have different memories and fun times to think about.

You could start loving your career, do best at something you’ve always dreamed about. Remind yourself that even without him, you will be okay, or better yet even better.

Keep doing what you need to do with your life, until you will realize that you don’t even have time to think about him anymore. It’s just a matter of acceptance and forgiving yourself of whatever you are guilty of to finally get over it.