27 May 12 at 6 pm

Asked by alovelyjewel

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asker Awww Thank You!! (: I Appreciate Your Respond!! I Really Do!! Have An Amazing Day!! (:

No problemo! Have an amazing day as well :D

asker I like this guy. he lives down the street from me and we go to school together. we were talking for a while and he told me he wanted to date me and i even tried keeping my feelings at a distance. then he got a girlfriend so i tried ignoring him. he kept trying to get my attention and even made fun of me but i cant seem to get him out of my head. how should i deal with him? like why doesnt he like me?

He’s got a girlfriend but still tries to get your attention? I’m not really sure I can say that he really likes you, because there can be really some guys who like to ‘play’ and I don’t really know this guy.

How to deal with him? If for now he has a girlfriend, let’s try keeping away. Respect the relationship. But if ever it’s over cause you say he ‘got’ a girlfriend, show you’re interested but never chase. We can’t also say that he doesn’t like you because he said he wanted to date you. Just be very careful. Never chase because when you do that, you’re showing vulnerability, and in most cases I don’t think guys like that. Don’t expect things from him, if he really likes you, he’ll do something about it. Just wait and have fun with life first.

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27 May 12 at 1 pm

Asked by Anonymous

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asker I left him broken 5 months ago knowing it would be the biggest regret of my life because he loved me so much,he found this girl,they started off as friends&he started to catch feelings for her while she was helping him get over me.While I was trying to focus on school but couldn't cause I love him.I finally pull my shit together and go back but now he's insanely in love with her and he's never been happier.I know I couldn't have made him as happy as she did but I still love him& want him help?

This wouldn’t have happened if you told him ahead that you want him to stay as you focus on school first. You could have assured him that you love him before you left him. I know that would make him expect and hope a bit, but at least you know you’d come back to him right after.

But of course knowing you left him broken, someone is going to have to come to his life and treat him the way he wanted you to treat him. For now, all you can do is respect their relationship. If he’s saying he’s happy now, if you really love him, you gotta accept what you didn’t do when you had the chance, and let him go. If he’s saying he’s happy now, if you really love him, what more can you ask for? Sometimes, when we love someone, all we want is for them to be happy even if it means without us.

Here’s the thing. When this guy saw how happy you were without him, he moved on, found a new girl who made him happy. At this point, you’re now seeing him happy without you. Maybe it’s also time you move on. Maybe, just maybe, someone else will come along who could make you happy too just as much as he is now. You just gotta wait, but for now, there’s nothing you can really do. I’m really, really sorry. :(

For now, keep focusing on your studies. You’re saying you couldn’t, you just gotta start accepting that he’s no longer there for you so you can let go and concentrate on your priorities. Stay happy with your friends, your family, the people who have been always there for you. Just appreciate the things that are still there. Soon enough, you’ll be able to move on. :)


26 May 12 at 12 pm

Asked by Anonymous

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asker thank you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! youre so awesome ..

Your welcome. Hope all things will go well and have a great day! :)


26 May 12 at 5 am

Asked by grace-mary

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asker I have such bad anxiety right now.. :/

If you let it out, it’ll be over. It could be either friends, or perfect strangers, just let it out. The more you hide it, that anxiety could grow.