Anonymous asked: I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy that I live. But its so hard with him living on a different continent. Sometimes I feel like I should just break up with him, but he always says he wouldn't be able to date another girl. He already thinks we'll get to go to college together and that we will get married. We both have been suicidal, and we got each other out of that, but I'm just not sure if breaking up would be a good or bad idea.
Long distance relationships are always hard. But if you’re really willing to work it out with that person, you’ll do just anything to communicate unless if one of you stops doing such thing.
Here’s what I want you to do: List down in a piece of paper numbers of reasons/answers to these questions.
- What’s keeping you from breaking up?
- What’s the reason you want to break up?
Whatever the reasons for these choices are, always weigh which has more or has the least. Sometimes, you even get to know what you really want because you seem to be favoring that question by finding more answers just so it could weigh more, just so you could make that decision. After you’ve done that, you’ll know what you really want, and why you want it.
I don’t know if this is really a good suggestion or advice, but sometimes I find this way very useful for myself as well. I hope you find the right answer for yourself. :D