Anonymous asked: for some reason i cant accept the fact that i lost my virginity at the age of 16. yesterday when i thought about it i broke down crying..i had promised i wouldn't do it till i got married and i broke that promise. IDK what i can do or tell myself to make me feel better and strong again.. I feel like im worthless now

You broke down crying because you broke a promise to yourself. It’s the same with other people, once a promise is broken, they get hurt and stop trusting that certain person. That’s what is happening to you. You broke a promise, you got hurt, and you feel like you lost your trust to yourself that’s why you’re not feeling better and strong.

What do you usually do when someone breaks a promise to you? They apologize and you forgive them. All you need to do is apologize and forgive your own self. You’re not worthless, ok? Just because you lost your virginity does not mean you have lost your worth, your purpose in life. Losing your virginity doesn’t matter, to some it does, and usually those are the immature ones who judge people by what they see in them not by HOW they see them. So cheer up! Again as I have said this, not just once or twice, there’s more to life than just worrying about something that’s done. It’s in the past, there’s nothing we can do to change it but learn from it, so move on. :)