Anonymous asked: I'm on my 3rd year in college, and so is my boyfriend. I know that after we graduate (we're both getting 4-year courses), we would go our separate ways and all, since he's planning to go abroad. I know I can't handle LDR. But I soooo love him. So I'm thinking of breaking up with him now so it won't hurt that much when the time comes. You see, we already know the ending of this; so why bother prolonging our relationship? Is what Im going to do stupid or it's the right thing to do?
You must be from Philippines, too. Just a guess.
It’s not stupid. You’re just thinking about the future, the more realistic type. It’s a mature decision. It doesn’t mean that it’s the end for both of you, you can still be friends. Though it’s true it will hurt, but it may hurt more when it’s already harder to let go.
I can’t say it’s the right thing to do, because everything is up to you. Only you know which is, well not exactly what is right, but what is best for you and for the both of you. Although before deciding this, ask him what he thinks about it too. How he would react to it. Then both of you can decide what you both want.