Anonymous asked: I'm starting to fall for this guy who's my friends with benefits. The problem is I underestimated him. The more we hung out, the more I got to know him. He's the only one I know that I can have discussions about life and society and such topics that no other can compare which is precisely what makes it even more difficult not to fall for him. However, the relationship we are on is strictly 'professional'. I'm growing feelings, I don't know what to do to get myself out of this situation. Help.
Since you want to keep it strictly professional, let’s keep it simple. Move away. You want to get out of the situation? Do it, act on it. Don’t just say it, don’t just think about it. Stop seeing him, stop communicating with him. I know it would be hard but that’s the only way to get out of it. The more you get more involved with him, it will just get even more harder.
When a person is so determined to do something, they will. If there’s a side of them that will try to stop them, those are just tests to see if they’re really eager to do whatever they need to do.
Whether we like it or not, the thing with ‘friends with benefits’ status is always gonna end up with one getting hurt because they are starting to fall. Save yourself before it gets any worse.