Anonymous asked: It's been a year now since we broke up. I'm still in love with this guy but he moved on. He is with another girl. Whenever i see him with her it just breaks me. I try everything from which i can forget him but i don't know, i always find myself reading his texts, emails our chats. I keep on looking at our pictures. I keep on crying at night knowing the fact he won't ever be mine again. I always wonder why such a strong relationship ended up.
There’s no denying, most good things no matter how strong and invincible it once was, eventually will come to an end.
There are 5 stages of grief, I’m sure most of us know this: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance.
Right now, you’re still in denial. The line “I always wonder why such a strong relationship ended up.” is proof how you still haven’t accepted the fact that it’s done between the both of you. Now I know you don’t want to delete his texts, emails and chats, but don’t you think it’s time to stop hanging on to something that’s no longer there anymore? Also, the reason you’re still holding on is because you still wish he’d come back to you. Don’t. Be mad how could someone ever break up with someone as good as you, do things you haven’t, go out with friends, cry, laugh, get yourself busy. Although at night you might remember him, at least you have different memories and fun times to think about.
You could start loving your career, do best at something you’ve always dreamed about. Remind yourself that even without him, you will be okay, or better yet even better.
Keep doing what you need to do with your life, until you will realize that you don’t even have time to think about him anymore. It’s just a matter of acceptance and forgiving yourself of whatever you are guilty of to finally get over it.
Anonymous asked: where have you been????
All my life? Kidding. Sorry been busy, and I almost had no time to check the internet.
But now I’m back, for the meantime maybe. Not sure if I’m back for good, but at least for now.